At some point in your life, you surely have been through the case of falling for someone or having a crush on someone and wanting to know whether or not the feelings are mutual, or when you have a huge crush on someone and you try anything that comes to your mind to make them fall for you as well so you would have that perfect love story and relationship you imagine in your mind.
In this article, we will show you tricks to make the person you are interested in fall you for you in no time.
1. Make them like you from the very beginning
The first impression is the most important part if you want to establish a relationship with someone. Always greet people with a smile and be friendly, if the person you are interested in has a good impression of you then your chances of something happening between you two are higher.
2. Engage them in talking about themselves
When you start a conversation with the person you are interested in, ask them about themselves, what they do, and what they like, engage with them in this kind of talk so that they would feel your interest in them and would feel happy around you.
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3. Emphasize the similar traits you both share
Do not act like you like everything that the other person likes, it looks fake but instead just focus on the things that both of you share and talk about them more, so the other person feels that you have some kind of connection because of these similarities.
4. Compliment the things that people struggle with the most
When you want to compliment that other person, do not just talk about how they look, about their clothes, or eyes or hair, etc. Try to complement their talents, the things they do good like a presentation they have done, or an article they have written, in other words, the things they have worked so hard on.
5. Do not forget to always be mindful of your body language
Your body language also plays a very important part in making someone trust you and fall for you, you should always have a straight posture with straight hands and palms facing people, this is what we call an inviting body language, people will feel more relaxed to talk to you.
6. Share the truth about your flaws
Be honest, do not try to paint the perfect version of you in their mind, talk about your flaws so that they would understand them and understand you. If you try to look perfect in their eyes they might have high expectations from you and that may lead to a huge disappointment.
7. Be the first one who makes a joke
Jokes and funny situations are one of the things that loosen up the atmosphere in a room, so if you are with the person you are interested in and you feel like the mood is tensed and there is too much silence, try cracking a joke that will make both of you laugh and before you know it, they might as well be falling head over heels for you.
8. Laugh at someone else’s jokes too
if you did not make the joke but somebody else did, laugh at it anyway. Even if the joke is bad try to make it funny and laugh it off that way they would feel more comfortable with you, but make sure to always laugh with them on their jokes and not make them the center of the joke.
9. To be interesting, be interested
One of the things that are essentials to grab the attention of the other person, is to always listen and show that you are interested in the things the other person is sharing with you, do not look bored or uninterested so that they would feel like you are paying attention to them.
10. Be a magnet for people around you and engage them
This does not mean to meddle into people’s business but it means to be able to start a conversation with a group of people, to have an interesting amount of positive energy so that people would want to notice you, join you and talk to you.
11. Make friends with other people’s friends
This is one of the most effective ways to attract another person, is to make friends with their friends. This falls into the category of having things in common, if you share the same friends you will be able to do more activities together and will have more things to share.
12. Surprise people when they do not expect it
When we say surprise, it does not need to be a huge and expensive surprise with a lot of planning before, just getting them a snack or coffee when they are busy at work, bringing a small gift with you after you come back from a trip, just small things to show them that you think about them and try to make them happy.
These were some of the most effective things you could do to make someone fall for you and as you can see it is not something extraordinary or impossible to do, just be yourself and show your interest to the other person.
Let us know in the comments below what you think about these tips and if you will try them to get your crush to notice you and fall for you.